현재 위치 - 인적 자원 플랫폼망 - 가정 서비스 - Why did Father Zhao publish a newspaper to sever the relationship with Miss Zhao Si after she fell in love with Zhang Xueliang?
Why did Father Zhao publish a newspaper to sever the relationship with Miss Zhao Si after she fell in love with Zhang Xueliang?

"Han Qing, I don't care how many women you have outside in the future, but there is one thing you must obey, eldest sister, that is, you cannot take them back to the Marshal's Mansion."

These words are newlyweds. That night, Yu Fengzhi made the only request to her husband Zhang Xueliang. For such a request, Zhang Xueliang, who has always been known for his romantic style, is naturally willing to accept it. So, he readily accepted the request without even thinking about it.

The year is 1916. This year, Zhang Xueliang was 15 years old and Yu Fengzhi was 18 years old.

At that time, Zhang Xueliang probably did not expect that more than 10 years later, Zhang Xueliang would not hesitate to break up with Yu Fengzhi in order to bring a woman named Zhao Yidi into the Marshal's Mansion.

The weather that day was either good or bad, but Zhang Xueliang's expression was cloudy and uncertain, just like the commander-in-chief's mansion who lost Zhang Zuolin's blessing after the Huanggutun Incident. As soon as Zhang Xueliang saw Yu Fengzhi, he said with a cold face: "I want to arrange for a woman to live in the Marshal's Mansion. This is a notice, not a discussion."

After hearing this, Yu Fengzhi immediately stood up from the chair. He walked straight to the window and took out a gun from the drawer, put it against his temple and said sternly to Zhang Xueliang: "No matter what woman she is, as long as she comes in, I will kill you!"

Zhang Xueliang's expression changed immediately. He looked at Yu Fengzhi in a panic and said, "What's the big deal, does it matter? Put down the gun, and I'll think of a move." After Yu Fengzhi heard that he still didn't give up on bringing a woman into the Marshal's Mansion, he immediately became red. With his eyes open, he pushed the gun hard against his temple. Zhang Xueliang couldn't stand it when he saw that she was serious about it. He wiped his face with his right hand and turned his head: "Okay, just don't take it with you!"

After finishing speaking, Zhang Xueliang turned and left. Yu Fengzhi slowly put down the hand holding the gun, his legs went weak and he collapsed on the ground. This round, she considered winning, but she knew that this woman named Zhao Yidi must not be simple, otherwise how could he easily betray his promise for her.

Yu Fengzhi has always felt that although her Han Qing is romantic by nature, her status in his heart will never be shaken as she has given birth to a daughter and many sons. But today, it seems that all this That doesn't seem to be the case.

Not long after that, on September 26, 1929, Yu Fengzhi saw a public announcement in Tianjin's "Ta Kung Pao". This announcement was a statement severing the relationship between father and daughter. The initiator of this notice was none other than Zhao Yidi's father, Zhao Qinghua, who had served as Deputy Minister of Transportation of the Republic of China and diplomatic adviser to the three northeastern provinces.

On that day, Zhao Qinghua's notice in the newspaper was very formal. He wrote:

"Unfortunately, a rebellious daughter came out of the family and eloped with others. From the day it was published in the newspaper, He broke away from his father-daughter relationship and cut off all contact with Zhao Si. "

At the end of this announcement, Zhao Qinghua did not forget to add: "I will not be responsible for anything that happens as a result of this. "

Yu Fengzhi didn't say a word for a long time after seeing this notice. After a long time, she put the newspaper on the tea table and sighed: "He is trying to embarrass Han Qing!" "This woman, at this critical moment, is not thinking of herself, but of her husband.

Yu Fengzhi quickly sorted out his thoughts. The content of Zhao Qinghua's announcement was very simple. He simply said: "Zhao Yidi is hiding something. When her parents eloped with Zhang Xueliang, he angrily published a newspaper article to sever the father-daughter relationship with her. ”

Yu Fengzhi knew that it was impossible for Zhang Xueliang to let any woman elope with him, and he would definitely not be able to do such a thing. So she speculated that Zhao Yidi’s parents did not allow her to associate with Zhang Xueliang, so Zhao Yidi She disobeyed her parents and left home privately to find Zhang Xueliang.

The well-informed Yu Fengzhi guessed it right, but she only guessed half of it. What she didn't guess was that Zhao Yidi was here. She didn't really run away from home when she came to see Zhang Xueliang. She was just worried about his safety because she hadn't received a letter from Zhang Xueliang for a long time, so she wanted to go to Shenyang to see him.

Under the circumstances at that time, Zhang Xueliang's situation was indeed real. It's hard to say, but it's far from a situation where Zhao Si is worried about his safety. But who can say for sure what's going on in a woman's mind, especially a woman in love?

What's the escalation of the matter? This originally ordinary move was taken advantage of by Dafang's son who was competing for favor in the family. At that time, because Zhao Qinghua doted on his concubine Lu Baozhen, Zhao Yidi's biological mother, the status of the principal wife was in jeopardy. In order to compete for favor, Dafang came up with a plan. The way to create a gap between Zhao Qinghua and Lu Baozhen was Zhao Yidi's.

So, Zhao Yidi's brother told his father in an aggravating way as soon as he learned that his sister had left home. The little temperament's departure from home was simply called "elopement". In the old days, elopement meant betraying the family. Zhao Qinghua couldn't help but be furious. ? What's more, the person Zhao Si was engaged to came to visit at this time, and now Zhao Qinghua was completely angry.

In the old days, communication was not developed, and Zhao Qinghua, who could not get in touch with his daughter Zhao Yidi, concluded that his daughter must be really married. Zhang Xueliang eloped. After all, the Zhao family was a wealthy family. How could such a scandal not bring shame to the Zhao family?

The night Zhao Si left home, Zhao Qinghua couldn't sleep. On the one hand, he was worried about his daughter's current safety and future. On the one hand, he was worried about his situation, and on the other hand, he was also worried about what would happen next. In the tense situation at that time, if he, Zhao Qinghua, got involved with the Feng clique led by Zhang Xueliang, the entire Zhao family would inevitably be involved in political struggles.

After much thought, Zhao Qinghua simply decided to publicly sever contact with Zhao Yidi. At that time, this method was the only way to save the Zhao family's face and protect his daughter's future.

Zhao Qinghua’s idea is very simple: to publish in the newspaper to cut off contact with his daughter is to publish in the newspaper to show that he has nothing to do with the Feng clan, which can protect the Zhao family from falling into political strife; at the same time, his move is also tantamount to making it public Put pressure on Zhang Xueliang. You see, this woman was abandoned by her family for you. If you betray her, the whole world will not tolerate it.

On the other hand, Zhao Qinghua felt that this was the only way to explain to Zhao Si’s fiancé’s family.

Of course, there is a price for such a perfect method. The price is: from now on, the whole world will know that there is a rebellious daughter in his Zhao family, and his daughter’s reputation will no longer be preserved. They The father-daughter relationship was forever severed.

If you give up, you will get something. This is something that all those who have achieved great things in ancient and modern times will understand. Zhao Qinghua knows this very well. But as an experienced politician, he also knows very well that in this crisis, he can actually get nothing. All he can do is to "stop losses" as much as possible.

Shortly after publishing this notice in Ta Kung Pao for five consecutive days, Zhao Qinghua simply resigned from office out of shame. He even separated from Zhao Yidi's biological mother, Lu Baozhen. At this point, all Zhao Qinghua's operations were completed. At this point, no one had any suspicion about Zhao Qinghua's complete severing of relations with his daughter Zhao Yidi.

Of course these people include the parties involved, Zhang Xueliang and Yu Fengzhi.

Zhang Xueliang's mentality was extremely complicated after learning about this incident. On the one hand, he was grateful for Zhao Yidi's contribution to him. On the other hand, he was ashamed because he could not give Zhao Yidi his status. On the other hand, he felt that Zhao Qinghua's move was too insidious and cruel. In addition to these, Zhang Xueliang also had another concern. After the matter reached this point, how would he explain it to his first wife Yu Fengzhi.

Before Zhang Xueliang had time to explain to Yu Fengzhi, Yu Fengzhi made the first move. She sent someone to deliver a note to Zhang Xueliang. After receiving the note, Zhang Xueliang finally breathed a sigh of relief. He turned to his confidant and said, "Everything will be done according to Madam's arrangements. You go find a place to settle down."< /p>

Subsequently, Yu Fengzhi half-opened his eyes and acquiesced to Zhang Xueliang and Zhao Yidi living outside the independent mansion.

Under the circumstances at that time, Yu Fengzhi could only do this.

Before Zhao Yidi’s father severed the relationship with her, her first wife Yu Fengzhi could morally appeal to a third party. However, after Zhao Yidi suffered this disaster, Ruo Yufengzhi fought back with a beating. , which is bound to be true.

This is equivalent to a person who was originally a creditor going to the creditor to collect the debt, but when he arrived at his house, he found that people in his house had just starved to death. Usually in this case, if the creditor still opens his mouth, it is theoretically correct, but morally it is very difficult to survive.

After Zhao Qinghua severed the relationship with Zhao Yidi, Yu Fengzhi was in the same situation when she faced Zhao Yidi again. If she "collected debts", it would be justified theoretically, but it would not be justified morally. Moreover, suppressing Miss Zhao Si under such circumstances is likely to lead to a complete breakdown of her relationship with Zhang Xueliang.

So, Yu Fengzhi finally chose to acquiesce or even semi-support them. Yu Fengzhi's concession was a victory. She won humanity, Zhang Xueliang, and indirectly won Zhao Yidi's favor.

Only Yu Fengzhi’s success can prevent this three-person drama from being turned into a bloody drama.

Soon after, Zhao Yidi gave birth to his son Zhang Lulin in Tianjin. Because she did not live in Zhang Mansion and Zhao Yidi did not have any relatives around him, Zhao Yidi faced an unprecedented dilemma after giving birth to the child.

At this time, Zhang Xueliang was deeply involved in the political whirlpool, but it happened that it was ice and snow when Zhao Yidi gave birth to his son. If the baby and the mother did not receive good care in this situation, all the consequences would be devastating. It would be unimaginable.

Zhang Xueliang revealed to Yu Fengzhi about Zhao Yidi’s birth in a less obvious way. Soon after learning the news, the kind-hearted Yu Fengzhi brought a servant, milk powder and some necessary supplies. Supplies are out.

When Yu Fengzhi arrived at the residence of Zhao Yidi's mother and son in the wind and snow, Zhao Yidi froze. She never expected that the person who came to rescue her at the most critical moment in her life would be her love rival Yu Fengzhi.

"Sister!" Zhao Yidi shouted "Sister" in a hoarse voice and then broke down in tears. When Yu Fengzhi saw him, he quickly comforted him and said, "Little sister, you can't cry before your body recovers."

After putting the baby into cotton-padded clothes and trousers, feeding him and putting him to sleep, Yu Fengzhi looked at Zhao Yidi. He said: "Han Qing and I have an agreement that as long as I am here, there will be no other women in the Marshal's Mansion, so you still can't enter the Marshal's Mansion, but I can take the child back and raise it on my behalf. Do you think that's okay?"< /p>

After hearing this, Zhao Yidi was so moved that her lips trembled. She looked at Yu Fengzhi intently for a few seconds and then hugged Yu Fengzhi and burst into tears.

With no support from her natal family, no time for her husband to take care of her, no relatives or friends to support her, and still having a child out of wedlock, the best way Zhao Yidi could think of was to send the child back to the Marshal's Mansion. But this method is exactly what she and Zhang Xueliang dare not think of, because no matter from which aspect, Yu Fengzhi can disagree.

But now, before they mentioned it, Yu Fengzhi had already raised it himself. Facing such an eldest sister, why didn't Zhao Yidi cry bitterly?

Some people say that everything Yu Fengzhi does is because she loves Zhang Xueliang, while others say that she is generous deep down. But in Yu Fengzhi's own opinion, these are nothing more than his last resort choices. However, her last resort was not because she was forced, but because she was kind.

Yu Fengzhi is a person who has always wanted to help the weak when she saw them being bullied since she was a child. This is also destined that a woman like her will always become strong when encountering the strong and weak when encountering the weak. Therefore, when Zhao Yidi, the daughter of a well-known family, first intervened in their marriage, her attitude was extremely tough. But when she was in trouble, she put on a gentle face, and even really raised her children with the mentality of an elder sister taking care of her younger sister.

This kind of Yu Fengzhi impressed Zhao Yidi and won the respect of Zhang Xueliang. But throughout her life, she only gained Zhang Xueliang's respect.

In 1936, Zhang Xueliang was placed under house arrest due to a coup. In the first three years, Yu Fengzhi stayed with Zhang Xueliang. Originally, Yu Fengzhi planned to stay with Zhang Xueliang, but after she was diagnosed with breast cancer, she had to reluctantly give up the care.

After Yu Fengzhi had to go to the United States for treatment of breast cancer, the important task of taking care of Zhang Xueliang could only fall on Zhao Yidi. Just like Yu Fengzhi who gave up everything at that time, after receiving Zhang Xueliang's letter, Zhao Yidi chose to give up the child and went to Yangming Cave in Guizhou where Zhang Xueliang was imprisoned at that time.

Since then, Yu Fengzhi has stayed there after recovering in the United States. During this period, she worked hard in the stock market and real estate while taking care of her children. After accumulating strong assets, she made an excellent arrangement for Zhang Xueliang for the rest of his life. These arrangements include buying him a noble villa, reserving a large amount of property, etc.