2. You have no income, but you have paid. Cooking, doing housework, looking after children and dealing with relatives and friends all take a lot of time and energy. If it is outsourced to nannies and housekeeping companies, how much will it cost if you look at the market price? Tell your husband.
3. Family life needs two people to run it. If it doesn't involve principle, let him worry about it in one voice. If he is still in your field, you can disagree or give him a bad look. If it weren't for a plant, he would feel something wrong with himself.